'Tis a fangirls dream.
A lot of people rooted for this couple.
Me included, they're just so cute.
In the 'friends-only' anime, as you noted for the girls. Most 'real' gay couples, male anyway, act no different from very close guy friends shown in anime - outside of the bedroom. They have the arguments, those love/hate rivals in action anime, they have their quiet moments, those "no need for words because we understand each other" scenes in most dramatic anime, and they have their fun 'inside joke' moments, also found in most 'close friends' anime. Pick an anime - Rurouni Kenshin has Kenshin and Sano as the picture perfect 'gay' couple - by 'real' definitions, as in, they don't flaunt things outside the bedroom. Yaoi and shonen ai anime tend to be extremist about relationships, heck, yaoi *is* about sex more than anything else. For simple 'realistic gay' relationships, you're better off watching one of the 'technically straight and just very close male friends' anime - there are dozens of those out there. If you go for something like Rurouni Kenshin or Yu Yu Hakusho, there isn't even the problem of female competition - Kenshin treats Kaoru as a 'sister' type outside the final OVA and the much-degrated 'Christian Saga.' I've known quite a few gay women and guys who found that 'friendship only' anime to be reeking of what you'd see in a 'real' gay relationship. Again, outside of the bedroom.angieness wrote:I mean I honestly don't know where you would find realistic yaoi or shonen-ai...
Um...have you watched any shonen ai anime? Earthian actually has a sex scene, yet not once in the anime do either of the guys act 'horny', let alone even *think* about sex - you just catch a glimpse because it explains a current problem in their relationship. Touya and Yukito from CardCaptor Sakura never so much as kiss - how would that offend any gay person? Yaoi, maybe, but not shonen ai. You can't have it both ways. If straight guys aren't offended by Carrot's behavior in Sorcerer Hunters, and straight girls aren't offended by Ryoko's behavior in Tenchi, then I'm sure gay people can handle a little 'extreme character' action - or they can filter the anime like everyone else does.I mean wouldn't you be offended if you were a gay guy and all the gay guys in anime were horny guys that only think about sex?
Heh, if you were my roommate, you'd have been forced to 'see' yaoi in technically 'non-yaoi' anime instead. I tend to enjoy 'fan-made' pairings more than the explicit anime pairings. I just like the interaction between the characters when it doesn't revolve around sex - you can find that in a few anime, Yami no Matsuei (not the psychotic Muraki, I mean the Tsuzuki/Hisoka pairing), or Earthian - though that one's a bit sappy/angsty/drama - the 'uke' is overexaggerated and pretty darn effeminate. I like Kagetsuya, myself. ;pangieness wrote:My roommates pretty much forced me to look at yaoi and shonen ai all the time because it was pretty much 4 people in 2 small rooms in the dorm, and most of the stuff they watched was pretty crazy. Gravitation was one of their big ones and I just couldn't get into it. But yeah I haven't had much exposure to shonen ai that doesn't involve the characters being horny at all times.