The Vindictive Ex-Boyrfriend that I am.

Flint the Dwarf · Post by **Flint the Dwarf** » Tue Oct 07, 2003 12:43 am

KhayotiK wrote:The only problem is, is I really loved her. I lost my virginity to her and she really let me be who I am. I gave all that I had to her, and it seemed that she loved me in return, but tossed away everything I had to give, including my love it seemed. If that makes any sense. And now, again, she's swearing she's changed, wanting to make it work. It just hurts. Although I know in my gut that saying no is the right decision.

Hmm...

More thought is required. I will sleep on this, but the decision is entirely yours and I don't know the situation entirely. You are probably making the right decision, but I'd hate to be in your place.

The person I loved, or at least believed I loved, was very selfish but it took me a while to realize it.

And she only caused a lot of pain in the meantime. But she's out of my life now, I couldn't bear that.

Propyro · Post by **Propyro** » Tue Oct 07, 2003 1:08 am

i agree with flint on this ... i guess you need to take some time and think about it.

Personaly, if it was me, i'd go back to her, but thats becasue i'm jsut like that and i almost never learn.

If theres any advice i can give with any confidence it would be to take your time and weigh out your decisions. beyond that i can't help you. Good luck.

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SS5_Majin_Bebi · Post by **SS5_Majin_Bebi** » Tue Oct 07, 2003 2:39 am

KhayotiK wrote:The only problem is, is I really loved her. I lost my virginity to her and she really let me be who I am. I gave all that I had to her, and it seemed that she loved me in return, but tossed away everything I had to give, including my love it seemed. If that makes any sense. And now, again, she's swearing she's changed, wanting to make it work. It just hurts. Although I know in my gut that saying no is the right decision.

Davan from Something Positive was in this situation...fuck, I'VE been in this situation before!! Although going back out with her will be a quick fix, and is the easy answer, when she cheats on you again (not if, WHEN) it will just hurt more, because you'll kick yourself for ever believing it would be otherwise. So no, dont go back out with her, it will hurt you alot more the second time round, take it from me.

Propyro · Post by **Propyro** » Tue Oct 07, 2003 2:42 am

SS5_Majin_Bebi wrote:So no, dont go back out with her, it will hurt you alot more the second time round, take it from me.

umm you mean third.

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SS5_Majin_Bebi · Post by **SS5_Majin_Bebi** » Tue Oct 07, 2003 2:45 am

Propyro wrote:
SS5_Majin_Bebi wrote:So no, dont go back out with her, it will hurt you alot more the second time round, take it from me.
umm you mean third.

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Yeah, third....oops...well he knows what i mean.

Propyro · Post by **Propyro** » Tue Oct 07, 2003 2:49 am

SS5_Majin_Bebi wrote:
Propyro wrote:
SS5_Majin_Bebi wrote:So no, dont go back out with her, it will hurt you alot more the second time round, take it from me.
umm you mean third.

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Yeah, third....oops...well he knows what i mean.

unfortunatly.

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SS5_Majin_Bebi · Post by **SS5_Majin_Bebi** » Tue Oct 07, 2003 2:51 am

Propyro wrote:
SS5_Majin_Bebi wrote:
Propyro wrote:
SS5_Majin_Bebi wrote:So no, dont go back out with her, it will hurt you alot more the second time round, take it from me.
umm you mean third.

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Yeah, third....oops...well he knows what i mean.
unfortunatly.

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Hey what??

Propyro · Post by **Propyro** » Tue Oct 07, 2003 2:53 am

unfortunatly he knows what you mean. meaning he ahd to experiance it for himself, which is not a good thing, exspecialy if you loved that person.

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SS5_Majin_Bebi · Post by **SS5_Majin_Bebi** » Tue Oct 07, 2003 2:55 am

Propyro wrote:unfortunatly he knows what you mean. meaning he ahd to experiance it for himself, which is not a good thing, exspecialy if you loved that person.

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Oh boy, do I know that feeling. It doesn't immediately look or feel like a good thing, but, much as I hate to admit it, if you survive the experience it is character building.

Propyro · Post by **Propyro** » Tue Oct 07, 2003 2:57 am

i can't make much of a comment on that, being Mr. Hobo the hermit.

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