The Vindictive Ex-Boyrfriend that I am.

KhayotiK · Post by **KhayotiK** » Mon Oct 06, 2003 6:40 pm

She is trying to get back into my life, but she might be carrying an STD, and nothing will change. But she's a rose on the outside, and people normally don't see beyond that. Inside she's insecure, and horrendously selfish. I'm tormented by her, and her friends. Somebody tell me that I'm making the right decision by not going back out with somebody who will undoubtedly cheat on me again, and I'll feel happy.

El Banana · Post by **El Banana** » Mon Oct 06, 2003 6:42 pm

You're making the right decision by not going back out with somebody who will undoubtedly cheat on you again, and may be carrying an STD, AND is insecure and horrendously selfish.

J-0080 · Post by **J-0080** » Mon Oct 06, 2003 6:43 pm

Hey,

If she cheated on you before, then ya, you probablly shouldn't go out with her again. She's already shown that she can't be trusted.

J-0080.

Flint the Dwarf · Post by **Flint the Dwarf** » Mon Oct 06, 2003 8:03 pm

Hmm... I think that, to some extent and in my opinion, people should be given another chance (I don't know if you've given her one, I'm just stating that). I don't like the idea of never being able to regain somebody's trust, I know I'd allow one or two screw-ups...

However, I think you are making the best decision. If you think there's the chance that she has changed or will change, then you should maybe think twice but the worst part is that she's selfish. That's something that is hard to change.

If she will undoubtedly cheat on you again, there's not much of a choice for you to make... unless you're a masochist.

KhayotiK · Post by **KhayotiK** » Mon Oct 06, 2003 8:08 pm

flint_the_dwarf wrote:Hmm... I think that, to some extent and in my opinion, people should be given another chance (I don't know if you've given her one, I'm just stating that). I don't like the idea of never being able to regain somebody's trust, I know I'd allow one or two screw-ups...

However, I think you are making the best decision. If you think there's the chance that she has changed or will change, then you should maybe think twice but the worst part is that she's selfish. That's something that is hard to change.

If she will undoubtedly cheat on you again, there's not much of a choice for you to make... unless you're a masochist.

Yes, I've given her a second chance before, and thank you all for your input.

Flint the Dwarf · Post by **Flint the Dwarf** » Mon Oct 06, 2003 8:10 pm

Well then who the hell's heard of a third chance? You didn't need our input.

KhayotiK · Post by **KhayotiK** » Mon Oct 06, 2003 8:21 pm

Good call!

LightningCountX · Post by **LightningCountX** » Mon Oct 06, 2003 8:22 pm

hey man, this isnt such a biggie situation, just tell her to share her STD with someone else other than you

Propyro · Post by **Propyro** » Mon Oct 06, 2003 8:27 pm

don't ask me for advice ... actualy odds are you wouldn't have asked me if i were the only person on the org. But any ways it looks like flint already helped you make your mind up .. .so do what ever you feel is right for whatever reasons you have.

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KhayotiK · Post by **KhayotiK** » Tue Oct 07, 2003 12:38 am

The only problem is, is I really loved her. I lost my virginity to her and she really let me be who I am. I gave all that I had to her, and it seemed that she loved me in return, but tossed away everything I had to give, including my love it seemed. If that makes any sense. And now, again, she's swearing she's changed, wanting to make it work. It just hurts. Although I know in my gut that saying no is the right decision.