Advice

Nestorath69 · Post by **Nestorath69** » Sun Sep 14, 2003 6:41 pm

Okay, so I met the perfect girl like two months ago... very very beautiful, sweet, kind, gentle, open-hearted, intelligent, graceful, sexy, innocent, pure.

The only problem is that she's taken. The advantage in my favor is that by coming to Campus, it puts her relationship into 'Long distance mode" and while I would normally have no open conscience warfare, I've recently begun redeveloping the 'Nice Guy' side of my persona... all thanks to her.

DO I GO FOR IT???

(By the way, if I were to do this, i would shatter her fragile hopes and dreams and drag her down to my sick, twisted level, and ruin the things I most appreciate about her...)

jonmartensen · Post by **jonmartensen** » Sun Sep 14, 2003 6:46 pm

Just be nice and spend time with her. In a sence, that will be "going for it". If the long distance is too hard to work out, she'll have you there for her.

Moonlight Soldier · Post by **Moonlight Soldier** » Sun Sep 14, 2003 6:46 pm

Frankly speaking from what I've seen of you: YOU NEED THIS!!!!!!!!!!!

(By the way, if I were to do this, i would shatter her fragile hopes and dreams and drag her down to my sick, twisted level, and ruin the things I most appreciate about her...)

Try not to do this....

Besides if she's the "perfect girl" for you, then you must have redeeming qualities in which she would also connect to you. All she has to do is say no. Just go for it man. Let her decide but don't take it personally if things go wrong because as you've said she's in a relationship. Let her decide if you're worth losing the other guy. But be a bit subtle...don't go nuts....that could come off as bad.

Dvirus101 · Post by **Dvirus101** » Sun Sep 14, 2003 7:01 pm

I'll just sit here nodding my head agreeing with everyone else as if I know what I'm talking about, which I probably don't seeing as I haven't had any real relationships with a human member of the opposite sex as of yet....

OzzieArcane · Post by **OzzieArcane** » Sun Sep 14, 2003 7:16 pm

Dvirus101 wrote:I'll just sit here nodding my head agreeing with everyone else as if I know what I'm talking about, which I probably don't seeing as I haven't had any real relationships with a human member of the opposite sex as of yet....

Ditto...

The only girl I've ever asked out, I too thought was pretty much perfect... aside from her being 7 years younger then me. But she didn't have a boyfriend and I still got rejected(and it wasn't even because of the age...)

jonmartensen · Post by **jonmartensen** » Sun Sep 14, 2003 7:29 pm

OzzieArcane wrote:...

The only girl I've ever asked out, I too thought was pretty much perfect... aside from her being 7 years younger then me. But she didn't have a boyfriend and I still got rejected(and it wasn't even because of the age...)

That fits so well with your Johnny Bravo avatar

J-0080 · Post by **J-0080** » Sun Sep 14, 2003 8:27 pm

If I was a girl I would be afraid to date you.

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Don't hurt me please!

J-0080.

Nestorath69 · Post by **Nestorath69** » Wed Sep 17, 2003 6:55 pm

Ahhh... ummm.... whatever, duder.

And, in response to Midnight Soldier... For me to even attempt to violate her innocent, perfect pure love with her man would require the most subtle of psychological manipulations. Most, of which wouldn't work on most people, but because she's not world-wise, I can do with NO EFFORT...

The assault on my conscience is almost unbearable...
But the thought of the sadistic pleasure makes it difficult.

I'm not asking to be the nice guy. I can do that. I'm saying-

Do I shatter her hopes and dreams, skewer her multiple times, and thouroughly enjoy every moment of sadistic pleasure at ruining someone's whole innocent and naive universe, feeding the darker, more perverse side of me...

Or do I play the nice guy and root for her.

God. I am bitter. How sad.

Propyro · Post by **Propyro** » Wed Sep 17, 2003 7:22 pm

just continue being her friend. Long distance relasionships, as far as i know have a bad habit of falling apart, even when communication's are good. My friend moved to Newfoundland for a year, he called his girlfriend over here in ontario at elast every week, spoke with her on msn as often as possible ... you name it. Poof ... she wound up fucking just about anything thats eye level was higher then her tits.

who knows, just keep being her friend and maybe things will work out for you.

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LightningCountX · Post by **LightningCountX** » Wed Sep 17, 2003 7:27 pm

just chill out, and be her friend for awhile...patience pays off...