The Non-Professional wrote:klinky wrote:If I had a obession with only 13 and 12yr olds then you could start worrying.
if you had an obsession would we know? or would you hide it? oO
Yes, but I can assure you that I am not obessed with 13yr olds. I am just mearly stating a fact that everyone likes to say "oh dear god, he said a 13yr old was hot he must be a sicko". No, it's nature. If you were 13 and another 13yr old turned you on or you thought she was hot. Then when your 23 probably that same kinda of girl could turn you on.
It's mechanics of the human brain. Of course when you're 23 you shouldn't be going out with 13yr olds. You should have the mental capacity to go out and associate with people of your own age.
I am also sick of people calling 13/14yr olds children. While they are technically children and they don't know everything. There are alot of smart 13/14yr old boys & girls. Ok, I don't think my point of view on life or my ideals have changed much in 5yrs since I turned 14. Ha
oh dear maybe that means I am immature. But alot of people discount others based on their age. When there are alot of dipshit 20 somethings who are way more immature and stupid than a 14/15yr old.
Also people age differently. Both mentally and physically. When you're 13 - 14 or 12 or whatever, there is less likely of a chance you've "matured into the real world". Since you haven't been on your own.
I've been in the real world and it's alot like fucking high school. It's not alot different, 'cept if you fuck up you die.
Most of the skills in this world are from experience. What most 13/14yr olds lack is experience. If you're 12/13 and you can fucking cook a box of mac n' cheese, stay @ home alone or clean your room, you were RAISED WRONG. That's about all that's really required in the real world, or it was until education became a important factor. However, I can prove my point since I was hired at a $10.58/hr job @ 15yrs old. That's alot more than quite a few people make. I was able to do a interview, talk to the right people and I had the needed skills to get the job done. I did the job excellently for 2yrs as well.
So while technically kids may still be ~children~ @ 13 give them more credit then that. They're more than children. Puberty usually strikes in the early teens. What with the crap they're putting in meat and our depleting ozone layer it's happening sooner and sooner. But I don't know anyone who atleast by the time they were 13 didn't start noticing that the opposite sex was attractive. Of course I knew the opposite sex was attractive by the age I was 6. But for others it may be different.
So you can all stop your judgement trips. I am not saying I am going to go out and fuck every 13yr old I see. I don't say I am going to go out and attempt to have a relationship with a 13yr old. All I am saying is around that time of age, girls BECOME ATTRACTIVE. Notice also I say around that time... Becuase you can't put a specific age on when it happens. So I am not trying to say 13yr olds are ok, but 12yr olds aren't, or 12yr olds are ok but 11yr olds aren't. 12/13 is just a avg start of when people hit that time in their life. It could be sooner and it could be later. It doesn't really matter, what matters is what they are or what they have become and if they look pretty then I am going to think "she's pretty". I am not going to toss and turn in bed at night wondering why that pretty 14yr old looked hot.
Also I believe the bible and other sources moral people turn to is filled with 'underage' marriage. I think it was a staple in many times past.
~klinky
Usually around that age is when they start becoming attractive to males. 
