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klinky · Post by **klinky** » Tue May 27, 2003 1:53 am

What you need to do is realize that she doesn't care and won't care. You may think you're being super caring by creating this persona and dedicating your life to her. But frankley she probably doesn't give a shit.

Your best thing to do is to just try and forget about her. -_-.

Wasting your time and life on someone who doesn't give a damn is just going to make you feel worse in the end.

~klinky

ForgottenHeart · Post by **ForgottenHeart** » Tue May 27, 2003 4:15 pm

Completely the truth, She doesn't know about this, but you are right, She wouldn't care. My life isn't dedicated to her, I still hold a good job and I am definitely not confined to any one place physically, however, emotionally is a different story entirely. I can not shift my focus to anything else. I'm rather weak in the emotional department, so to speak. Again though, You are correct, though the cold hard truth my hurt, it is definitely worth hearing.

yuppa · Post by **yuppa** » Tue May 27, 2003 5:52 pm

ForgottenHeart wrote:Completely the truth, She doesn't know about this, but you are right, She wouldn't care. My life isn't dedicated to her, I still hold a good job and I am definitely not confined to any one place physically, however, emotionally is a different story entirely. I can not shift my focus to anything else. I'm rather weak in the emotional department, so to speak. Again though, You are correct, though the cold hard truth my hurt, it is definitely worth hearing.

SO basically you have an obsession for her.Clearly you might need some Special Services,or you might have a fatal attraction thing on your hand. You are also the clingy-needy type also. Please go to a professional shrink and "Let it Out"

ForgottenHeart · Post by **ForgottenHeart** » Tue May 27, 2003 8:57 pm

It is now scheduled, I will do just that. But what will it work? A Fatal Attraction thing, mind explaining? Yes, I am a clingy needy person, I admit that.

yuppa · Post by **yuppa** » Tue May 27, 2003 10:05 pm

ForgottenHeart wrote:It is now scheduled, I will do just that. But what will it work? A Fatal Attraction thing, mind explaining? Yes, I am a clingy needy person, I admit that.

Well the fatal attraction thing was not quite fitting i see now. You are Not that Clingy yet are you?And good luck with the professional help.

ForgottenHeart · Post by **ForgottenHeart** » Tue May 27, 2003 11:46 pm

That Clingy? I'm curious to know what this all means, and thank you.

klinky · Post by **klinky** » Wed May 28, 2003 12:13 am

Well it's rather odd

See the ladies, I guess, wants the guys who are happy and indepentant on their own. They don't need anyone else to feel happy.

Ok, so

. I mean, if that was the case

Then why would they need a woman if they didn't NEED anyone else.

It's really odd when some people are like love is when your happiness is affected by the other persons happiness

. Yet, truthfully this "independant" non-clingy person should be perfectly happy alone. :/

Whatever -_- it's strange. Get a good job and lotsa money and the babes will come runnning. Maybe not be real but -_-. Wahtever

~klinky

ForgottenHeart · Post by **ForgottenHeart** » Wed May 28, 2003 12:59 am

Oh, I'm in the field of computers, I make decent money (and no girls coming my way). At any rate, and this has been said many times, I still want her... Hmmm... Independence is attractive? In other words, The challenging ones?

klinky · Post by **klinky** » Wed May 28, 2003 2:07 am

Well it's emotionally indepentant. Like not actually needing someone else to like yourself. Or something of that sort.

=/

Alot of lonely depressed guys seem to have problems with this

. They get too attached! There's a fine line I guess. It sucks that there is a line at all. Anyways... It just makes you more aware that people may not always be exactly what wanted and no matter how good they seem to be in your mind they situation would have never worked out.

~klinky

fyrtenheimer · Post by **fyrtenheimer** » Wed May 28, 2003 8:11 am

klinky wrote:Well it's rather odd

See the ladies, I guess, wants the guys who are happy and indepentant on their own. They don't need anyone else to feel happy.

Ok, so . I mean, if that was the case Then why would they need a woman if they didn't NEED anyone else.

It's really odd when some people are like love is when your happiness is affected by the other persons happiness . Yet, truthfully this "independant" non-clingy person should be perfectly happy alone. :/

Whatever -_- it's strange. Get a good job and lotsa money and the babes will come runnning. Maybe not be real but -_-. Wahtever

~klinky

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