Depression

Cain T. Longshot · Post by **Cain T. Longshot** » Fri Mar 14, 2003 11:33 am

*Sigh* Don't mind my post, i just need a little advice right now.

My girlfriend left me today....get this...for another woman.

Now i'm not an angry man...

but i feel so confused. I don't quite understand it myself, but i can't figure out why she would have done something like that to me. I gave her all the attention she wanted, i gave her anything she could desire (And that i could afford ^^;) and yet this happens. Any Insights anyone? [/img]

Wykith · Post by **Wykith** » Fri Mar 14, 2003 11:47 am

It sounds like your girlfriend likes the taste of pussy. It's not your fault. Nothing you can really do. Unless you plan on getting one.

MAS PRODUCTIONS · Post by **MAS PRODUCTIONS** » Fri Mar 14, 2003 11:50 am

Love is never rational. Here is a qoute that I always love to here:

It is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all!

My opinion, it is hard to make someone incredibly happy by just filling there desire's. I look at relationships with women as friendships and not so much as lovers. If you can make that person truely happy without earthly items than it is truely love. I cant say that I am an expert in this subject but I have experienced these things and I have survived them and learned from them.

GoldenGundam · Post by **GoldenGundam** » Fri Mar 14, 2003 11:51 am

Well...uh...that really sucks.

El Banana · Post by **El Banana** » Fri Mar 14, 2003 12:16 pm

Like Wykith said, it's just beyond our control...

And I declare 14th of March (Pi) the official .Org "Getting dumped for weird reasons day".
Sheesh, first Ed and now you... that sucks man.

Propyro · Post by **Propyro** » Fri Mar 14, 2003 12:20 pm

gee .. that sucks ... but look at it this way ... at least you had a girlfriend. And your probably not a total social klutz either are you? Belive me, all you gained was some more experience in dealing with people. Maybe if you tried a different approach you'll get some better results, ireally can't give you any real advice in this subject as i have no experience, but i can tell you that it's not as bad as you may think it is. Good luck in your future relationships.

RadicalEd0 · Post by **RadicalEd0** » Fri Mar 14, 2003 1:16 pm

It is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all!

unfortunately mine dosent think that way anymore... but, the very saying defines the meaning of our existance. We live in this world to experience love and hate, joy and pain, happiness and sorrow. We exist here because here we can easily say you are you and I am I, and we can experience our differences. Life is just a dance of differentiation.

/end wisdom

actually it happened to me last night, but I'll go with today

I'm not sure which is worse o_O getting dumped for another girl, or getting dumped because shes become devoid of all emotion.
But she was my first true love and all that bullshit

Lyrs · Post by **Lyrs** » Fri Mar 14, 2003 1:18 pm

The only thing that comes to mind is:

You're pathetic. So, a girl leaves you and you feel all depressed and stuff. Stop pitying yourself. You are not the only guy on earth that was ever dumped...for another boy or girl.

Get over it. [Not meant to be a personal attack, more like a wake up and smell the bloody roses.]

/end

MAS PRODUCTIONS · Post by **MAS PRODUCTIONS** » Fri Mar 14, 2003 1:46 pm

Lyrs wrote:The only thing that comes to mind is:

You're pathetic. So, a girl leaves you and you feel all depressed and stuff. Stop pitying yourself. You are not the only guy on earth that was ever dumped...for another boy or girl.

Get over it. [Not meant to be a personal attack, more like a wake up and smell the bloody roses.]

/end

I kinda agree just not so harshly said. I would say:

There are plenty of fish in the see don't fret over the one that got away

There are way too many sayings for getting dumped isn't there, I guess its a way of getting over someone and making you feel better about yourself

Cain T. Longshot · Post by **Cain T. Longshot** » Fri Mar 14, 2003 1:51 pm

Thanks for the harsh words, i needed that. (Mostly due to the fact that i now live alone...again...) ^^;

I really appreciate the kinds words from all of you, i shouldn't have posted somethng like that, but i needed help ASAP due to a lack of friends irl. (Yep, i'm a social schmuck and the girl i was with, i just got lucky for once in my life.

)

Ah well, maybe i'll find someone better, i'd hate to be and old man with no one to talk to besides my cat. @_@