well fuck... (relationship troubles)

HellBlazer · Post by **HellBlazer** » Fri Mar 14, 2003 9:33 am

Sorry to hear of your perdicament... you better do somethin while shes still there. A few weeks ago a friend of mine went on a trip to France.. when he came back.. his gf was dead.....

Wykith · Post by **Wykith** » Fri Mar 14, 2003 9:42 am

HellBlazer wrote:Sorry to hear of your perdicament... you better do somethin while shes still there. A few weeks ago a friend of mine went on a trip to France.. when he came back.. his gf was dead.....

Holy shit! Oh man....now that really sucks.

El Banana · Post by **El Banana** » Fri Mar 14, 2003 9:45 am

Damn.... no one told him huh?

HellBlazer · Post by **HellBlazer** » Fri Mar 14, 2003 10:04 am

Yeah it does suck... but im sure noone told him cause that would have ruined his trip...

El Banana · Post by **El Banana** » Fri Mar 14, 2003 10:51 am

I can see where that's coming from, but I'd feel guilty that I was off having fun when someone close to me died and I didn't even know.

RadicalEd0 · Post by **RadicalEd0** » Fri Mar 14, 2003 1:06 pm

unfortunately shes not going to kill herself
she'd rather be dead alive
fucking moron
she still believes she should pretend to care to make other people happy.. she dosent understand that when its fake caring its just going to hurt them more in the end.
Shes such an idiot..

CaTaClYsM · Post by **CaTaClYsM** » Fri Mar 14, 2003 4:42 pm

is this how you really felt about her the whole time bleeding to the surface not that it's over? or are you just angry that she left you?
If the meds aren't really working than god only knows what's going on in here head. For all we know, the voices are telling her to stop dating you because if the relationship continued she'd melt like the wicked witch of the west. If she were sane, or properly medicated than this is her saying it's time to end it, and you aren't left with much left to do but leave. However, if she is really and TRULY not all there upstairs then you have another shot once she's stable, but even then I get the feeling the answer may just end up being the same. Unless she is really falling apart before your eyes you best bet is to tell yourself that you're better off without her and move on.

RadicalEd0 · Post by **RadicalEd0** » Fri Mar 14, 2003 5:34 pm

I'm only mad at her because she's being stupid. She honestly thinks that she's better off with no emotions for anyone or anything. She believes that not feeling anything is better than feeling and risking feeling pain. She thinks that no matter what happiness will always lead to dissapointment and pain, and so it's no use even trying to be happy. She wants to be dead alive. And she dosent want to hurt anyone. She thinks that she can keep pretending to care about people and she dosent understand that if its fake and insincere they'll just be more hurt in the end.

CaTaClYsM · Post by **CaTaClYsM** » Fri Mar 14, 2003 6:00 pm

By that very reasoning she she should stay with you and keep faking it. since she cleary doesn't want anyone 'gettign hurt'. "I can't keep this up, I can't hurt anyone, btw it's over between us." Why go on about faking it to protect people and then go and MAME you? I if I were you call her up tell you you want to keep faking it. But then again, thats me, and I'm a prick, your best bet is to keep the hell away form her, she's bad news.

El Banana · Post by **El Banana** » Fri Mar 14, 2003 6:00 pm

Heck, isn't that whole "Hedgehog's Dillema" deal in enough movies already for her to know better?