well fuck... (relationship troubles)
- RadicalEd0
- Joined: Mon Jun 24, 2002 2:58 pm
well fuck... (relationship troubles)
The girl whom I've spent the last two years with and who had become a huge part of my potential future just tonight decided to tell me that she dosent care about me or anyone anymore, and that she's better off without any emotions at all for anyone. That includes me.
She's being a fucking moron. But she's been depressed all her life and has been showing signs of schitzophrenia lately, so I shouldve seen this sort of thing coming. Unfortunately... just getting over this is much harder than I'm making it sound...
and... yeah.
It hasnt been a good week.
I'm waiting to wake up, but I know I'm not going to..
She's being a fucking moron. But she's been depressed all her life and has been showing signs of schitzophrenia lately, so I shouldve seen this sort of thing coming. Unfortunately... just getting over this is much harder than I'm making it sound...
and... yeah.
It hasnt been a good week.
I'm waiting to wake up, but I know I'm not going to..
- CaTaClYsM
- Joined: Fri Jul 26, 2002 3:54 am
welcome to manhood. I myself, have never experienced the fun that is dating a screwed up chick. But I have seen people who have. My uncle got kicked out of his house after 25 or so years of marage because he just wouldn't give up, he spent hte last 4 or 5 sleeping in a sepereate bedroom.
But I know that you will want to salvage this relationship, and believe it or not you can. Convince her, and or hor parents, that she needs medical help, if you are serious about the schitzophrenia and depresion stuff then you are obigated to tell her she needs help (and if she happens to be under 18, her parents/guardian.) if not as a boyfriend, than as a regular friend/aquaintance/person.
But I know that you will want to salvage this relationship, and believe it or not you can. Convince her, and or hor parents, that she needs medical help, if you are serious about the schitzophrenia and depresion stuff then you are obigated to tell her she needs help (and if she happens to be under 18, her parents/guardian.) if not as a boyfriend, than as a regular friend/aquaintance/person.
So in other words, one part of the community is waging war on another part of the community because they take their community seriously enough to want to do so. Then they tell the powerless side to get over the loss cause it's just an online community. I'm glad people make so much sense." -- Tab
- RadicalEd0
- Joined: Mon Jun 24, 2002 2:58 pm
shes had every kind of damn help, its all useless. And yes I want to salvage it.. but my choices as of now are basically this:
smack some sense into her
let her figure it out the hard way
try and forget about her (both the easiest and hardest choice of all)
In fact.. perhaps I'll do all 3 :| in that order
smack some sense into her
let her figure it out the hard way
try and forget about her (both the easiest and hardest choice of all)
In fact.. perhaps I'll do all 3 :| in that order
- Anime Jedi
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- Corran
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- CaTaClYsM
- Joined: Fri Jul 26, 2002 3:54 am
Was this out of the blue, or were there warning signs? or do you not know if there were warning signs or not?RadicalEd0 wrote:shes had every kind of damn help, its all useless. And yes I want to salvage it.. but my choices as of now are basically this:
smack some sense into her
let her figure it out the hard way
try and forget about her (both the easiest and hardest choice of all)
In fact.. perhaps I'll do all 3in that order
So in other words, one part of the community is waging war on another part of the community because they take their community seriously enough to want to do so. Then they tell the powerless side to get over the loss cause it's just an online community. I'm glad people make so much sense." -- Tab
- Wykith
- Joined: Mon Oct 28, 2002 3:39 pm
What the fuck ever happened to "You motherfucker! Who is she? Huh? Who is she? Was she good?!"
Now its "My inner spirit has found that it cannot survive the strain of the world around it and it must seek confort in the empty void of my own damaged ego. I am sorry. I cannot bring myself to feel, for I am too afraid of the pain I might feel if my perfection was to be comprimised by a love not immediatly answered with absolute devotion."
Times are getting weirder and weirder.
Sorry Ed, that sucks large, sweaty, hairy, man balls.
Now its "My inner spirit has found that it cannot survive the strain of the world around it and it must seek confort in the empty void of my own damaged ego. I am sorry. I cannot bring myself to feel, for I am too afraid of the pain I might feel if my perfection was to be comprimised by a love not immediatly answered with absolute devotion."
Times are getting weirder and weirder.
Sorry Ed, that sucks large, sweaty, hairy, man balls.
"And now you will shed tears of crimson."
"I don't have an attitude problem. I have an attitude. It's your problem."
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