Tell her to get with it or get lost! She's playing with you man.So What Do You Tell Your Girlfriend...
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I have have a nice long conversation with her about this. Mkae her say the thigs women want us to figure out with one clue. At the end of this convo if she still doesnt care about friends and family. I know you loved her but he gots to go.
you dont have to take my addvice i suggest you dont. but im just trying to help

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well...there are a couple things she may be trying to get out of you.
If she said it first in a 'how about pizza for dinner' kind of way, most likely she wants to get your reaction. The fact that she said you'd probably never really move makes me think that this is the case. This kind of things is like a shock tactic to see if you are up to being with her no matter what.
For some reason it seems she isn't feeling as needed by you as she used to. I would bet that is the case and she is trying to make you prove it that you want to be with her.
She may or may not actually want to go to New York, she may kind of want a change of scenery but if she has made no plans other than to just say this thing, I think she is just getting bored with her life right now.
Wanting a guy to follow you anywhere even if he leaves everything else is like an ultimate show of loyalty but stupid. It may be time for you to ask her where this thought came from and ask her what you can do to improve things where you are. She is probably really trying to get a response from you like this. The fact she didn't say she wanted to go without you is good but her saying this means things in her mind have strayed a bit from what you thought things were.
Women tend to not give men much warning about problems and then blurt them out like the guy should have known all along (cause the woman did after all) so that is why the guessing game ocurs. It means there has been a problem for awhile and the guy just didn't notice.
Now I better stop giving away these female tactic secrets or I could be deemed a traitor
If she said it first in a 'how about pizza for dinner' kind of way, most likely she wants to get your reaction. The fact that she said you'd probably never really move makes me think that this is the case. This kind of things is like a shock tactic to see if you are up to being with her no matter what.
For some reason it seems she isn't feeling as needed by you as she used to. I would bet that is the case and she is trying to make you prove it that you want to be with her.
She may or may not actually want to go to New York, she may kind of want a change of scenery but if she has made no plans other than to just say this thing, I think she is just getting bored with her life right now.
Wanting a guy to follow you anywhere even if he leaves everything else is like an ultimate show of loyalty but stupid. It may be time for you to ask her where this thought came from and ask her what you can do to improve things where you are. She is probably really trying to get a response from you like this. The fact she didn't say she wanted to go without you is good but her saying this means things in her mind have strayed a bit from what you thought things were.
Women tend to not give men much warning about problems and then blurt them out like the guy should have known all along (cause the woman did after all) so that is why the guessing game ocurs. It means there has been a problem for awhile and the guy just didn't notice.
Now I better stop giving away these female tactic secrets or I could be deemed a traitor

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