I hope I've said it right each time we've met.Ileia wrote:6. I never just let someone say my name wrong. If you speak to me, and you say it wrong, I'll correct you. I don't care who you are. I sometimes won't even answer someone's question until I've corrected their pronunciation.
Example:
Boss: Hey, Ee-lay-uh, did you do bla-bla-bla?
Me: Eye-lee-uh?
Boss: Eye-lee-uh.
Me: Yes, I did that yesterday.
It seems rude, but I find it more rude when someone doesn't respect another person enough to try to even say their name right. Especially when someone is trying to say it right and just give up and end it with "whatever". Not being able to spare the seconds it takes to get it right sets off something in my head that immediately says "I hate you, too." If you've done this, I probably hate you. And with people that I am forced to deal with who persistantly say it wrong, I will either a) say their name wrong ("Hey there Eeeedward.") or b) stop answering altogether. Now, there are always cases where someone is just scatterbrained and I forgive them and make a joke of it, but I still correct them on it. I can tell the difference between them and someone who just doesn't give a fuck. That being said, I still wouldn't trade my name for the world.

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Here's a few more things I've decided to share:
- I've been single and haven't been in a relationship since 2002. But back from 8th grade until then, I was always chasing girls and have been rejected numerous times (probably because of my giant glasses and shaggy hair). I'll honestly say that I've only had 2 girlfriends total and much, much, more "dating, but never worked out" relationships. In 2002, I had feelings for someone who was already taken, and I know she really wanted me too, but didn't want to be the homewrecker (last I heard, she moved out of state and finally got married, whew!). I was sick of playing the game and got more focused on amvs during that time to help me get by. I still tend to get nervous around women in general and I'm extremely nervous when they get flirtatious.

Now that I'm a lot older and wiser, I might get back into the saddle.

- I'm a huge pack rat and LOVE collecting things like video games, books, and figures. Sadly, when I was going through financial problems in 2010, I had to sell a large chunk of my collection. I plan on collecting it all back when I get rich.
- I LOVE airports. Although I hate driving to and from them.
- I spent 9 years (Fall 1999 - Spring 2008, a little under 9 actually) trying to graduate from college. I got a scholarship to a Tech School and got kicked out in 2001 for not attending. Then I spent from 2001-2005 in a community college and got my Associates in Science degree. In 2006, I transferred to a university majoring in Computer Science. About 3 weeks in, I really hated programming and realized I was already past the drop deadline. You had to have nothing short of a court hearing to get out, so I duked it out and still failed all my programming classes, but at least I tried. If I had just stopped coming to class, I would have really deserved to fail.
At that point, I decided to finally be an editor for a living and wanted to switch my major to film, media, or something related, but my university didn't have those (it was more of an engineering focused school). I said fuck it and majored in Liberal Arts with an art focus just to get a degree. However, I LOVED all my liberal arts classes since I took a variety like theater, art, speech, etc. I graduated with straight A's, but short of the Dean's List (I had a 3.34 GPA and the Dean's List was 3.5). I even won a teacher's award for doing a power point presentation on pop culture, which my old teacher still uses as her "A+ example" to this day.
Most of my family said I should have gotten a more worthwhile degree, but after the great times I had in my Liberal Arts classes, I don't regret it one bit. It's always a bittersweet feeling to look at the framed degree on my wall after working so long and hard to get it.

- To compliment the above, I've never been that academically smart. I was always a C student, but I excelled in my art classes and anything creative. I went to an Asian majority high school where all of my friends were straight A students with me being the dunce in the group.

- In my 2 years working on and off as a professional editor from 2008-2010, I've only edited one feature film and tons of boring piano recitals, meetings, gatherings, parties, etc. I've also had some... interesting experiences with a few productions which I'll document privately in my LJ in the future. I also applied to be an extra in tons of films (I tried for Transformers 2, but didn't get in..), a production assistant (got called back a few times, but never had anything finalized), and got my headshot taken as well (which I also didn't get called back for

- I don't have a facebook, myspace, etc since I don't like social networking sites. I really don't want to re-connect with people I hated from grade school to high school. I know I can easily ignore them, but....
- My sister made a bet with me saying if I ever became a famous filmmaker, I have to set up a facebook account. I really hope my sister wins this bet so I can show all the people from my past how awesome I am now in comparison to being the outcast as a kid/teen.

- There was once a time I HATED anime because of the fans. Especially the ones that insulted you for not watching "x show".

- When I first entered this community, I felt that I would never fit in and would be left out, especially after the Dragon Bebop Z fiasco in 2002. Luckily I was proven wrong and many of the detractors have become my closest friends.
- I have a desire to learn how to cook restaurant quality food and even wanted to take culinary classes in 2005. I might try to take classes again someday.