well fuck... (relationship troubles)

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well fuck... (relationship troubles)

Post by RadicalEd0 » Fri Mar 14, 2003 2:06 am

The girl whom I've spent the last two years with and who had become a huge part of my potential future just tonight decided to tell me that she dosent care about me or anyone anymore, and that she's better off without any emotions at all for anyone. That includes me.

She's being a fucking moron. But she's been depressed all her life and has been showing signs of schitzophrenia lately, so I shouldve seen this sort of thing coming. Unfortunately... just getting over this is much harder than I'm making it sound...
and... yeah.
It hasnt been a good week.
I'm waiting to wake up, but I know I'm not going to..

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Post by NME » Fri Mar 14, 2003 2:18 am

I feel for ya boy. Its like that time I went to the hospital and the bi-polar girls.... oh man I was SO CLOSE TO GETTING SOME. There are advantages to living with crazies.
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Post by CaTaClYsM » Fri Mar 14, 2003 2:18 am

welcome to manhood. I myself, have never experienced the fun that is dating a screwed up chick. But I have seen people who have. My uncle got kicked out of his house after 25 or so years of marage because he just wouldn't give up, he spent hte last 4 or 5 sleeping in a sepereate bedroom.

But I know that you will want to salvage this relationship, and believe it or not you can. Convince her, and or hor parents, that she needs medical help, if you are serious about the schitzophrenia and depresion stuff then you are obigated to tell her she needs help (and if she happens to be under 18, her parents/guardian.) if not as a boyfriend, than as a regular friend/aquaintance/person.
So in other words, one part of the community is waging war on another part of the community because they take their community seriously enough to want to do so. Then they tell the powerless side to get over the loss cause it's just an online community. I'm glad people make so much sense." -- Tab

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Post by RadicalEd0 » Fri Mar 14, 2003 2:22 am

shes had every kind of damn help, its all useless. And yes I want to salvage it.. but my choices as of now are basically this:
smack some sense into her
let her figure it out the hard way
try and forget about her (both the easiest and hardest choice of all)

In fact.. perhaps I'll do all 3 :| in that order

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Post by Anime Jedi » Fri Mar 14, 2003 2:22 am

I'm sorry to hear this RadicalEd0. :cry: It's definitely a shame. And saying she doesn't want emotions for anyone doesn't really help at all.

Well, hopefully things will start looking up you.

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Post by NME » Fri Mar 14, 2003 2:25 am

LOOKING UP..


WHEN YOU'RE DEAD. AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

KILL MY HEAD NAD MY BODY WILL DIE.

SERIOUSLY

CALL HER ASS UP AND GIVE HER A STERN YELLING AT, THEN FEDEX HER A GET-IN-LINE BITCHSLAP. THAT'LL TEACH HER. DEPRESSION IS NOTHING THAT A SMACK TO THE FACE CAN'T CURE.
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Post by Corran » Fri Mar 14, 2003 2:29 am

First me...
Then Klinky and Fyrt
and then Tab and Sam

Today Sucks...


Well it may sound stupid now but just remember that if things don't work out there are other people that will be better for you. :|

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Post by CaTaClYsM » Fri Mar 14, 2003 3:17 am

RadicalEd0 wrote:shes had every kind of damn help, its all useless. And yes I want to salvage it.. but my choices as of now are basically this:
smack some sense into her
let her figure it out the hard way
try and forget about her (both the easiest and hardest choice of all)

In fact.. perhaps I'll do all 3 :| in that order
Was this out of the blue, or were there warning signs? or do you not know if there were warning signs or not?
So in other words, one part of the community is waging war on another part of the community because they take their community seriously enough to want to do so. Then they tell the powerless side to get over the loss cause it's just an online community. I'm glad people make so much sense." -- Tab

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Post by El Banana » Fri Mar 14, 2003 4:45 am

Well Ed, all I can do is say "that really sucks man." I feel for you.
In the words of my roomate: "there are many better apples under the sea"....

and I haven't got a clue what that means.
I like bugging people. Deal with it.

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Post by Wykith » Fri Mar 14, 2003 9:14 am

What the fuck ever happened to "You motherfucker! Who is she? Huh? Who is she? Was she good?!"

Now its "My inner spirit has found that it cannot survive the strain of the world around it and it must seek confort in the empty void of my own damaged ego. I am sorry. I cannot bring myself to feel, for I am too afraid of the pain I might feel if my perfection was to be comprimised by a love not immediatly answered with absolute devotion."

Times are getting weirder and weirder.

Sorry Ed, that sucks large, sweaty, hairy, man balls.
"And now you will shed tears of crimson."
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