well fuck... (relationship troubles)

El Banana · Post by **El Banana** » Mon Mar 24, 2003 2:04 am

I'd reply, but you'd have to be insane to take romantic advice from me.
Hope everything works out.

CaTaClYsM · Post by **CaTaClYsM** » Mon Mar 24, 2003 2:09 am

RadicalEd0 wrote:right now im not even thinking about the future cat, right now i'm thinking what the fuck am I going to do, its 2AM, I dont know the # where shes staying, I wont be able to sleep of course, and theres nobody I can call. All I can do is distract myself for a few hours until its late enough in the day to call her house and find out the number of her friends where shes staying

how far does she live from you? I thought the relationship was long distance. If she is staying at a friends house near you then thank god, you can actually confront her. But I warn you. Nothing good will come from it. "She'll say she was trying to protect your feelings" you'll say "by what? going and boffing someone behind my back while making me worried sick because of how bad you felt?" nothing good will come from it. Unless you want to win some argument and make her feel as bad as you do (which I would, no reason why you have to suffer alone.) Then your best bet is to move on.

RadicalEd0 · Post by **RadicalEd0** » Mon Mar 24, 2003 2:11 am

she lives in florida.. across the country. All I can do is wait until I can talk to her and confront her, and you're right, that is what she'll say, but I dont care, I need to talk to her, and I wont have peace of mind until I do.. which sucks, because its only 2:11 now... I'm gonna go crazy by 10am

NME · Post by **NME** » Mon Mar 24, 2003 2:13 am

look, you can either start crying like a baby or start sending mailbombs. I go for the latter. its fun.

CaTaClYsM · Post by **CaTaClYsM** » Mon Mar 24, 2003 2:26 am

RadicalEd0 wrote:she lives in florida.. across the country. All I can do is wait until I can talk to her and confront her, and you're right, that is what she'll say, but I dont care, I need to talk to her, and I wont have peace of mind until I do.. which sucks, because its only 2:11 now... I'm gonna go crazy by 10am

Well here is what you can do, you can either try to get over it, grieve, or get revenge (NON-violent.). Just tell me which you want to do and I'll start helping in any way I can.

RadicalEd0 · Post by **RadicalEd0** » Mon Mar 24, 2003 2:39 am

I dont know yet.. I just want to get to the point where I can talk to her as soon as possible and find out WTF and why the fuck.

I'm talking to sppanda right now.. and his story is amazingly similar to mine...

CaTaClYsM · Post by **CaTaClYsM** » Mon Mar 24, 2003 3:03 am

good, he should be able to give you some words of wisdom. And remember, your girfriend was the one cheating. It's her fault, not yours.

Pie Row Maniac · Post by **Pie Row Maniac** » Mon Mar 24, 2003 3:08 am

Shit. I'm really terribly sorry that this happened to you.

I'll be praying for ya, man.

Chaos Angel · Post by **Chaos Angel** » Mon Mar 24, 2003 10:51 am

RadicalEd0 wrote:.................

shit......

I just stumbled upon her live journal... which I didnt know existed.......

guess what? Shes been going out with Joe since valentines day. Guess she figured itd be more convenient for me to just think she cant love anymore.

fuck... I dont know what the hell im supposed to do now... I need to find the number of her friends house that shes sleeping over at now and call it.. even though its 1am..

... oh man

last night I had a dream that she was breaking to me the fact that she had been screwing other guys the whole time and faking her innocence...
what the fuck

...The hell?

Ed, that sucks. That just fucking sucks. What sucks the most is that she didn't even have the guts to tell you she just wanted to break up. She had to see some other guy behind your back.

To be blunt, Ed, you don't need this crap. I definitely support your choice to contact her and call her out about it. Best of luck.

RadicalEd0 · Post by **RadicalEd0** » Mon Mar 24, 2003 12:27 pm

yeah, dan (sppanda) made a post on her journal, but the funniest thing about is post is that when you link to it, the very first line of text on the screen.

I even gave her a chance on valentines day to admit that they were going out or that she wanted to break up for awhile, and she still just said everything was fine. Another funny thing is one of those quiz questions "Have you ever cheated on anyone: No".
I'm just looking forward to that oh shit feeling she's going to get when she realizes I know about this.