SarahtheBoring, we're propably just approaching things from two different directions. I don't see the irony in what I was trying to say in my previous posts, as I never said fiction equals to real life. Or if I said that, I explained it wrong, which happens to me quite a lot. I was trying to point out they're separate - of course they are - but there would be no fiction without reality. If you're looking at an anime series, any anime series, you will notice it has hell of a lot of similarities to reality. It has stories you can appeal to, or can't but you know what they're about. Those stories and characters (characters that are strangely similar to real people..) evoke emotions and thoughts in you, very often those very same thoughts and emotions you can have in real life, too. Actually, I could go so far as to say that the emotions and thoughts you experience in movies are always
real, since you as a
real person go through those. Sure, they're in different contexts and all, but they're real emotions and thoughts all the same, no matter what caused them.
I was trying to point out the difference between reality and fiction, but it's not like they're two
totally separate things. As I see it, the only thing that separates those two is that what happens in reality is
real and what happens in anime (for example) is not, but it's not like you couldn't find anything similar between fiction and real life.
And what comes to the attitude question.. First of all, we're talking about
attitudes. A person can have various different attitudes depending on the context. But it's not like you're a
totally different person at work or at home. I do know what you're talking about though, and I agree with you to a certain extent. Because I, too, act different on the internet for example. Heck, I even act different on different forums. But it's not like the input I get from different forums and the thoughts and emotions the input arouses in me are totally different on each forum. It always goes through some context filter, but there's not a totally different person receiving the information on each forum. It's the output that is different, the outputs that are similar yet different depending on the context and the attitude.
It's seems a little like a contradiction to me to say you have no interest in gunfights yet you enjoy watching them. Well, you might not want to experince it yourself, but you're interested in it nevertheless by enjoying watching it. It's not like I'm saying you're only interested in fictional stories because you want to go through them personally. It's most likely the case in fanservice or porn though, I think, but it certainly doesn't work like that for everything.
SarahtheBoring wrote:I hate hate hate angsty drama and emotional manipulation, but think that they can make for interesting stories.
Indeed, but you only enjoy it when you
know it's not real. Man, you could enjoy it even if you know it's real but not in a causal relation with you or the people around you. I'm not saying you do that though. It was just an example of some people

But, anyway, if you truly hate hate hate angsty drama and emotional manipulation, then why are you watching it and wanting it to arouse thoughts and emotions in you? What you see is what you get.. Well, personally, I love Elfen Lied and I love it how it makes me go through certain (in real life: negative) emotions. However, I only enjoyed - and notice the word "enjoyed" not in a hedonistic way - watching it because I was constantly aware that it wasn't real. I wouldn't want to go through the same process by watching the events of Elfen Lied in real life. Or if I did, then it would be... wrong?
It's not wrong to have an emotion or wanting to experince that emotion, and it could be the very same emotion no matter if you're watching real life events or fictional ones. So, I'll repeat myself:
it's only wrong when you seriously aren't aware of the superficiality in what you're doing or really can't see (AKA be aware of, to know)
the difference between a fictional world and the real world or at least when you act like there isn't any difference.
Man, this going way off-topic.. And I'm starting to sound ridiculous. But, hey, that's philosophy.