Now i did it ...

)v(ajin Koji · Post by **)v(ajin Koji** » Sat Sep 27, 2003 3:02 pm

Jace Tsunami wrote:how many billions of adults do you think there are in the world?

at least twice as many kids

Jace Tsunami · Post by **Jace Tsunami** » Sat Sep 27, 2003 3:03 pm

LightningCountX wrote:
Jace Tsunami wrote:There's plenty of cool ones.
I haven't seen any

maybe if you wern't so fucking biased you'd see some.

Summanaro · Post by **Summanaro** » Sat Sep 27, 2003 6:56 pm

Life isn't always fair, some people are nice and or cool, but most are just assholes that are only interested in self gain....

What your mom did was ignorant and wrong. You have the right to your own religion... wait, you're in the U.S. right? o.O.. Nope, Canada, oh well, then you should have the right to your own religion... As for the sponsor thing, you did make the right choice, I mean, if you're not exactly a 'chosen' candidate, or you don't want to, you shouldn't have too. Well... being a person for the job and not wanting to do it would be pretty wrong.

Propyro · Post by **Propyro** » Sat Sep 27, 2003 7:01 pm

Summanaro wrote:Well... being a person for the job and not wanting to do it would be pretty wrong.

not as wrong as not being the person for the job and just doing it because you get a cool sponsor gift.

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LightningCountX · Post by **LightningCountX** » Sat Sep 27, 2003 7:02 pm

fyrtenheimer wrote:Did it ever occur to you, that once you fucken "grow up", yo' next stage in life is adulthood? ..oh, but you'll make sure that you're a 'cool adult'

shut the hell up.

you just told me to stop being a child, so i guess im no where near adulthood

Trident · Post by **Trident** » Sat Sep 27, 2003 7:14 pm

Bringing it back on topic--yeah. Good for you for not sponsoring the kid, and good for you for not blindly believing in Catholicism solely because you were raised that way.

Jace Tsunami · Post by **Jace Tsunami** » Sat Sep 27, 2003 7:22 pm

oh yeah, so ontopic, since I never mentioned anyhting about it.

My grandparents are hardcore religion freaks as well. they hate how i am, and they blame my parents, which is fair I guess. My parents are religous, but they never made me go to church.

Anyways, I'm constently shocking my grandparents. Me and my brothers. My grandma was like, "YOUR BROTHER IS LIVING WITH HIS GF, AND THEY'RE NOT MARRIED!?" She almost disowned him. Good thing no one told her they're fucking. woooooo

And she hates my liberal use of not so clean words, and my tatoos and piercings. She doens't blame my parents for this tho, she blames my friends in bands I hang out with, and yeah, I bame them too. everytime i spend time with Tony Lovato form Mes tI start using the f word about 5 times more.

Flint the Dwarf · Post by **Flint the Dwarf** » Sat Sep 27, 2003 7:22 pm

LightningCountX wrote:
fyrtenheimer wrote:Did it ever occur to you, that once you fucken "grow up", yo' next stage in life is adulthood? ..oh, but you'll make sure that you're a 'cool adult'

shut the hell up.
you just told me to stop being a child, so i guess im no where near adulthood

Umm... once you stop being a child, you grow up... see the connection?

ithaqua · Post by **ithaqua** » Sat Sep 27, 2003 10:35 pm

Propyro wrote:
i can't argue, no matter how hard i try my arguments blow up in my face do to my generaly lack of eloquence.

my mother won't listen to what i say, even if i do make a good arguemnt for once
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Don't argue. Converse.
If other people are trying to convince you by being loud and overbearing, simply sit still, talk softly (but not under your breath), and allow yourself time to think.
You would be amazed who simply holding a hand up will quiet down the people around you, even if it's only momentarily.

You don't have to respond to every point made by the other side. It's not about winning, you can't since nobody in this situation will be changing their mind. It's about earning respect. You earned it from your sister, you can earn it from the rest of them too.

Just remember - you're not wrong, you're just not them.

Propyro · Post by **Propyro** » Sat Sep 27, 2003 10:51 pm

ithaqua wrote:
Don't argue. Converse.

hmmm bad choice of words, sorry for misleading you there ... i'm usualy not the loud one any ways. and i try to ... but still i'm not good at talking to people. somewhere on the path form mind to mouth thoughts get muddled and distorted and the meaning of my words get lost in a sea of studdering and stammering, and poor choices of synonyms.

ithaqua wrote: If other people are trying to convince you by being loud and overbearing, simply sit still, talk softly (but not under your breath), and allow yourself time to think.
You would be amazed who simply holding a hand up will quiet down the people around you, even if it's only momentarily.

I'm yet to see that work in practice, except in the case of somone who holds authority.

ithaqua wrote: You don't have to respond to every point made by the other side. It's not about winning, you can't since nobody in this situation will be changing their mind. It's about earning respect. You earned it from your sister, you can earn it from the rest of them too.

I try not to respond to every thing, infact if i see a chance to let something go unanswered with out it doing any kind of damage to me or my "position" i'll let it by.

ithaqua wrote: Just remember - you're not wrong, you're just not them.

no, in thier eyes that's the same as being wrong. i've made my bed, now i'll have to lie in it ... This was going to happen one day or another ... theough i'd rather have had it happen after i've moved out where my mother can't take it out on me so easily.

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