My friend and the person i love just disowned me

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Post by CaTaClYsM » Fri Dec 05, 2003 4:32 am

Please do so Misty, and could a mod please take Veldrin and Hatter aside and smack them for me? If this guy is dead there is going to be hell to pay. (At least if his parents know or find out he posts here and see Hatter and Veldrin at work.)
So in other words, one part of the community is waging war on another part of the community because they take their community seriously enough to want to do so. Then they tell the powerless side to get over the loss cause it's just an online community. I'm glad people make so much sense." -- Tab

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Post by Flint the Dwarf » Fri Dec 05, 2003 4:37 am

Hatter wasn't too bad but Veldrin definitely. It's going to suck when those two bear each other's children. :?

And CaT, about the same number of people that end up killing themselves are just doing it for attention... nonetheless, I agree, I don't think it should be ignored.
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Post by MistyCaldwell » Fri Dec 05, 2003 4:43 am

I still don't think he's going to do it. And I can't blame them for their reactions. It is an attempt to get attention. You don't tell people you want to kill yourself for any other reason than you want to hear them tell you not to do it.


He enetered Anime USA, I am going to try and sound as un-crazy as possible when emailing their coordinator for the amv contest so they'll take action and not just think I am trying to pull something. He's still cutting himself, which by itself is a psychological dysfunction. And in these cases, the parents NEVER have a clue until someone tells them, because their kids won't do it, and the friends feel like they are betraying the trust issue. It's exactly the opposite. They'll live with a burden their whole lives if a friend actually goes through with it and they could have done somethng but didn't.
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Post by CaTaClYsM » Fri Dec 05, 2003 4:44 am

I know they do it for atention, it's a cry for help more than anything. But sometimes they still succeed because of jackasses like Veldrin or people that ignore them and don't take them seriously, like Hatter.
So in other words, one part of the community is waging war on another part of the community because they take their community seriously enough to want to do so. Then they tell the powerless side to get over the loss cause it's just an online community. I'm glad people make so much sense." -- Tab

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Post by Flint the Dwarf » Fri Dec 05, 2003 4:47 am

So if the Karma system were up, I think Misty'd be at the top right now. :wink:
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Post by CaTaClYsM » Fri Dec 05, 2003 4:50 am

Yes, kudos to Misty! :D
So in other words, one part of the community is waging war on another part of the community because they take their community seriously enough to want to do so. Then they tell the powerless side to get over the loss cause it's just an online community. I'm glad people make so much sense." -- Tab

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Post by CaTaClYsM » Fri Dec 05, 2003 5:06 am

Well now the mods have two posts in the drop box. Since what goes on on the forums is their responsibility, they had better damned well intevene. :?
So in other words, one part of the community is waging war on another part of the community because they take their community seriously enough to want to do so. Then they tell the powerless side to get over the loss cause it's just an online community. I'm glad people make so much sense." -- Tab

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Post by MistyCaldwell » Fri Dec 05, 2003 5:08 am

thanks guys....although I am not sure how the karma system works...

I know I'll never meet the guy, and he could just be trying to get attention, but it wouldn't be good if he died. You know how ripples affect the pond...and it's the holidays coming up. I hope he can get some help and look back at this when he's in his 30's and realize how much he would have lost out on if he killed himself over a girl he never even actually went out with.
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Post by CaTaClYsM » Fri Dec 05, 2003 5:10 am

I am well aware. And if this was some elaborate prank. I would want him kicked in the nuts, then banned. We can't asume it's a prank though, until it's proven otherwise.
So in other words, one part of the community is waging war on another part of the community because they take their community seriously enough to want to do so. Then they tell the powerless side to get over the loss cause it's just an online community. I'm glad people make so much sense." -- Tab

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Dont do anything stupid

Post by Khameleon808 » Fri Dec 05, 2003 5:13 am

Just remember man , you do this and you will never know what could have been or what will be.

Suicide is nothing more but a permanent solution to a temporary problem, you say you known her 3 month , shit , try bein in a relationship for 5 years and have it end and tell me about pain.

If you need someone to talk to to take your mind of some of this shit i am avail anytime , if you indeed are doing this to get a rise out of us, you will get whats coming to you that's for damn sure , you might be reading the replies to this before you step out the house laughing and end up getting hit by a truck. If you are for real about this , just think about it , coming to the org for advice may not be the smartest idea, if you are as easily impacted by someone telling you to do it , then it should work the same way on the other side of the spectrum and good advice will sink in just as good so here it is .

DONT DO IT , GET OVER IT , MEET A BETTER GIRL AND BREED EDITORS!!!

ADD Khameleon808 to your list if you want someone to talk to man. I have been where you are before so I know where you are coming from.

[MOD: Veldrin has been banned for the moment whilst this is looked into]

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GOOD

Post by Khameleon808 » Fri Dec 05, 2003 5:22 am

GOOD , Cause things like that should not be tolerated. Little as it might mean to veld but there are those of us out here that do value human life

I feel for everyone that wants to end their life , even if they dont want my pity i bleed it out anyway cause no one deserves to be defeated in the mind like that . but then you have these jackasses that condone and promote actions like that , these people need to be beat with large clubs and left bleeding in the moonlight. Get a fucking heart during the time your banned, use this time to think about the things you say , and realize how the possible impact on it can be brought back on your ass.

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dont do it man
i have too many friends contemplating this right now
would hate to lose a possible friend

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Post by inanitydishamen » Fri Dec 05, 2003 5:24 am

I'd hate to lose a person who could potentially wash my car for pennies, or bagels!
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Post by MistyCaldwell » Fri Dec 05, 2003 5:26 am

flint_the_dwarf wrote:
MistyCaldwell wrote:I'm going to email the coordinators of any contests I can find...maybe the mods could get his ISP and email his provider so they can try. It may be a lot for one person, he could be faking, over reacting and not doing anything but playing games or in bed right now, but he has issues that his parents need to know about. Suicide is not an answer, and it could make the difference in someone's life if someone else will intervene.....
That's why I like you. ^_^

aww, I like you too Flint ^_^



I also just realized how he'd talked about not one, not two, but three of his friends have been thinking about killing themseleves in the past few days. For god sakes, someone needs to send some help their way.
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WELL

Post by Khameleon808 » Fri Dec 05, 2003 5:30 am

WELL , WE SHOULD PROBABLY end this thread before it becomes bigger drama then it already is . unless you wanna fuel this shit any longer , truth or lie , the continuation of this thread will only perpetuate the possibility of something happening , so the more that post the more that are invovled on some "pseudo" plane. so lets just let it go till someone finds something out.

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Post by CaTaClYsM » Fri Dec 05, 2003 5:34 am

Well as long as I can keep my trust in the powers that be to track the guy down and see what's going on, and that someone will tell me wtf happened then yes, lock the thread. But I'm not going to sleep well until I know wtf is going on.
So in other words, one part of the community is waging war on another part of the community because they take their community seriously enough to want to do so. Then they tell the powerless side to get over the loss cause it's just an online community. I'm glad people make so much sense." -- Tab

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