... wow this post is gonna be a pretty long one since i have to reply too a lot of people ... ok here goes ... 8) Yeah i have to agree with u on that ... a nice gurl, who cares about me and likes me for who i am not what i am. I also agree witht the shy types, they are more comfortable to be around, u dont have to worry about them flirting with other guys ...AlchemistRaikuyo wrote:I would like a girl....who is nice, and cares about me for who I am, not for what I am...I like the shy, quiet types...they make me feel more comfortable than the flirty types.... I just don't like girls who flirt cuz sometimes they toy with your feelings and that is just wrong!! VERY WRONG!!! Not all guys have any emotion.....I am different...I just have no soul
... gurls who flirt with other guys and they are still with u is wrong ... 
I have to agree with ur last statement, if there is someone that u really care about and really think that he or she is the one, hold on to him or her and never let go ...Cyanna wrote:Thanks very much for the complement. *blushes* And I definatly know that feeling all too well as far as the guys in my school are concerned. And then all the nice guys are taken. XD You just have to remember that somewhere out there, a nice girl is sick of guys who seem to be only interested in those who carry the "sex toy" image and is waiting to meet someone like you.Gaikotsu wrote:*sigh* We really need more (or any really), girls like you up where I am. It's a college town, and all the girls here seem to only be interested in the immature, loud, annoying frat boys. That kinda leaves the sensitive, honest guys like me high and dry.Cyanna wrote:Well....
Looks are not really a priority with me. I've had crushes on a variety of guys of different shapes and sizes. It's really a matter of hygene as far as physical appearences are concerned.
I prefer intellect over athletic ability. Since I am not an athlete, I tend to rely more on conversation to pass time then activities. I enjoy music so being a musician would be a perk. And even if he couldn't play an instrument, I like someone who isn't afraid to sing to me. But other then that, I like honesty, trustworthy, a sense of humor never hurt anybody. And I just have to feel comfortale with him. I have to be able to talk to him about anything without fear of looking like a fool.
I know that sounds so easy for me to say since I do have a boyfriend. But the fact that we ended up together was so unexpected, I still feel that I can stand by what I said. You never know what will happen in the future so if oppertunity knocks, don't hesitate to open the door......but that also doesn't mean that you can just sit around waiting for someone to find you.
... if u do, then u might not get her back and that would be just sad 
... Sitting around will not help u out if u r looking for the dream gurl or guy
... Gurls or guys aint gonna show up at ur door and say that im here ... no u gonna have to do ur part and help u dream person and look for them ... Yeah i think every gurl wants a super romantic guy in their life, they want someone to hold them and care for them and basically treat them like their princess ... so guys out there that dont have a clue on what a gurl wants ... there it is in simple terms ...KawaiiYume4o8 wrote:wow..i guess I'm a little late in this thread huh...here we go:
A super romantic guy that holds me as one of the most important things in his life. I like to be spoiled, so therefore, he should pamper me like a princess. He would always find ways to surprise me when i least expect it. A dashing fellow that has only eyes for me, even if all the women in the world were to come after him. He should spend every second, minute, hour, every day with ME!
ha...yeah right...
On to what is ACTUALLY out there: As far as looks go, as surprising as it seems, I don't want a HOT guy. I just want someone I see as cute and lovable. Cuz to me, a hot guy that knows he's hot will only tempted by others out there and would therefore, have a higher chance of cheating on me. But 1 attribute that is a must is humor. He HAS to have a sense of humor and make me laugh all the time. It actually would be cute if we would get into pointless arguments, but end up loving each other more afterwards. He has to be taller and older than me. He's romantic and a big softy on the inside. As I am a girl and I would like to be as spoiled as possible, I don't believe it's fair for guys to pay for or plan everything when the girl has the ability to hold her own. I want him to also see me as independent, but protects me when he needs to. I like to feel safe and secure when i am with him. I'm very affectionate when it comes to a person i like, so he shouldn't mind my constant hugs, cuddles, footsies, and hand holding. Also, I'd like him to value the times we spend together, even if it's not a lot. Though it's understandable that some guys can be a little messy, i think it's kinda cute, he can't be a total slob, if you know what i mean. And most importantly, being the little dork that i am, he has to love me...for me ^^
... But for me i dont really want a gurl that is too spoiled because then they get annoying ... but there is nothing really wrong with spoiled gurls except that they get everything they want and if they dont, then they go all pshyco on u ... 
Ok here is something else ... guys who arent all the good looking, turn that frown upside down, there is still hope for us all
... some gurls look deeper than look and go straight for the personality ... ...Dont be too manly and not show ur soft side, i have found out that gurls dig guys that arent scared to show their soft side, and thats a plus ... ... i figured this one out with the help from korou_ken and all the gurls i talked to, thanks for opening my eyes and showing me that showing a little soft side isnt that bad ... I guess that all u need to do is be urself and just have a great time and dont hide wat u really are because some gurl might like wat u have down in ur heart ... 8) Oh one more thing ... guys do the small things to a gurl like leave a note on her car, or a rose on her desks ... my friend told me that those little things count the most to a gurl ...
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