Venting Some Sadness

Hikari88 · Post by **Hikari88** » Thu Nov 20, 2003 4:17 pm

Sounds like a complete @$$hole

)v(ajin Koji · Post by **)v(ajin Koji** » Thu Nov 20, 2003 4:19 pm

well, yeah he is i guess....

Jonathan02us · Post by **Jonathan02us** » Thu Nov 20, 2003 7:51 pm

OH MAN ... im sorry to hear about that man, that really sucks that ur mate did that to u dispite him knowing how u feel about that chick and then the chick says that to b just friends and ends up flirting with ur friend... and then it gets even worse ... they are more flirty in public and then he goes and tell ur best friend something that is totally false ... oh man the drama ...

Here is wat i suggest ... i say forget about them both ... they dont deserve u to be their friends ... move on and eventually u will find true friends that will stick by u through the end and not backstab u ... i would resolve to violence and beat the heck out of the guy and then move on ...

... but im not like that so just leave the situation and move on, its best that way ... 8)

Hikari88 · Post by **Hikari88** » Fri Nov 21, 2003 4:17 pm

Jonathan02us wrote:OH MAN ... im sorry to hear about that man, that really sucks that ur mate did that to u dispite him knowing how u feel about that chick and then the chick says that to b just friends and ends up flirting with ur friend... and then it gets even worse ... they are more flirty in public and then he goes and tell ur best friend something that is totally false ... oh man the drama ...

Here is wat i suggest ... i say forget about them both ... they dont deserve u to be their friends ... move on and eventually u will find true friends that will stick by u through the end and not backstab u ... i would resolve to violence and beat the heck out of the guy and then move on ... ... but im not like that so just leave the situation and move on, its best that way ... 8)

I totally agree

El Banana · Post by **El Banana** » Fri Nov 21, 2003 5:03 pm

My halfway-serious advice:

Bottle those emotions up. Then, when he least expects it, you'll explode and murder him and anyone in the room at the time.

That or take it out on a punching bag.

LightningCountX · Post by **LightningCountX** » Fri Nov 21, 2003 5:06 pm

I havent really read the rest of the thread, just your first post peter

Well, i know i hit this topic a little late, but Peter, violence doesnt solve anything. If you are taking martial arts, you know this from your sensei. You arent supposed to use the fighting style to show agressivness to another person, only self defense. Your a lover, not a fighter just like me. I do feel for you man, but just kicking the shit outta him isnt gonna solve anything, it will just make it worse cause this girl will get pissed at you for kicking his ass. I know your a good guy, and I know you will make the right choice. Just talk the whole problem out with both of them. YOU HAVE TO LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL! I believe in you mate, dont give up! I know you will make the right decision. If you need to talk, you know how to reach me, away message up or not ill talk ^_^. Peace mate

Flint the Dwarf · Post by **Flint the Dwarf** » Fri Nov 21, 2003 6:18 pm

Moonlight Soldier wrote:
Koji wrote:I wrote LOTS and LOTS on how much they'd hurt me and how im trying my best to get over her and if they went out I'd deal with it etc...only to find out that today he's only gone and edited the convo and shown it to my best mates with it saying that i don't want to be his friend anymore. That made me angry...also neither of them will talk to me about this face-to-face, he talks to me over MSN about it and she gets a girlfriend to talk to me about it, any time i see them they pretend nothing is going on....
Well know he just sounds like a jerk

Concurred.

And, by the way, I was mostly kidding about kicking his ass.

I know how hard it is to forget things like this, but once you do you're a lot better off for it.

Jonathan02us · Post by **Jonathan02us** » Fri Nov 21, 2003 6:24 pm

flint_the_dwarf wrote:
Moonlight Soldier wrote:
Koji wrote:I wrote LOTS and LOTS on how much they'd hurt me and how im trying my best to get over her and if they went out I'd deal with it etc...only to find out that today he's only gone and edited the convo and shown it to my best mates with it saying that i don't want to be his friend anymore. That made me angry...also neither of them will talk to me about this face-to-face, he talks to me over MSN about it and she gets a girlfriend to talk to me about it, any time i see them they pretend nothing is going on....
Well know he just sounds like a jerk
Concurred.

And, by the way, I was mostly kidding about kicking his ass. I know how hard it is to forget things like this, but once you do you're a lot better off for it.

AGREED ...

)v(ajin Koji · Post by **)v(ajin Koji** » Sat Nov 22, 2003 7:56 am

well heres a little turn up for the books, she won't go out with him until he makes up with me

:O

so now he's invited himself around this sunday...like hell i'll make up with him...

Flint the Dwarf · Post by **Flint the Dwarf** » Sat Nov 22, 2003 8:05 am

Well... don't refuse to make up with him out of spite. In the very rare occasion that he shows himself to be a worthy friend, let him be a friend. That's what I'd do, but only if you think you could handle still being friends with those two while they're in a relationship together.

Your choice.