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KhayotiK · Post by **KhayotiK** » Wed Sep 17, 2003 11:51 pm

She's everything you're not, you don't have a chance. Even if she's interested in you, your willfull destruction of her good being is proof in itself that you should shoot for something a bit more in your range. Ask out a goat, or a smelly moose.

Or you could truthfully hope the best for her, and actually become the nice guy as compared to being a sick fuck playing a part, and eventually life works itself out that way, and you will get your just reward. (BTW your just reward is NOT NECESSARILY GETTING IN HER PANTS.)

Go for the gold, or go for the moose.

Flint the Dwarf · Post by **Flint the Dwarf** » Thu Sep 18, 2003 12:03 am

KhayotiK wrote:She's everything you're not, you don't have a chance. Even if she's interested in you, your willfull destruction of her good being is proof in itself that you should shoot for something a bit more in your range. Ask out a goat, or a smelly moose.

Or you could truthfully hope the best for her, and actually become the nice guy as compared to being a sick fuck playing a part, and eventually life works itself out that way, and you will get your just reward. (BTW your just reward is NOT NECESSARILY GETTING IN HER PANTS.)

Go for the gold, or go for the moose.

As bitter as I am right now, that's exactly what I would say. The man speaks sense. Listen. Bitch.

Savia · Post by **Savia** » Thu Sep 18, 2003 7:43 am

Nestorath69 wrote:Okay, so I met the perfect girl like two months ago... very very beautiful, sweet, kind, gentle, open-hearted, intelligent, graceful, sexy, innocent, pure.

The only problem is that she's taken. The advantage in my favor is that by coming to Campus, it puts her relationship into 'Long distance mode" and while I would normally have no open conscience warfare, I've recently begun redeveloping the 'Nice Guy' side of my persona... all thanks to her.

DO I GO FOR IT???

(By the way, if I were to do this, i would shatter her fragile hopes and dreams and drag her down to my sick, twisted level, and ruin the things I most appreciate about her...)

If she's as perfect as you say, she'll probably help clean you up instead of you dragging her down. Don't impose yourself overmuch, and if you're serious about it, act serious about it.

Nestorath69 · Post by **Nestorath69** » Thu Sep 18, 2003 7:08 pm

As much as I appreciate the... helpful... advice...

I think I'll avoid the animals.

And, for the recod, I'm pretty sick of being the nice guy. The nice guy may finish last, but until then, he's a whiny bitch that never gets any girl he wants until someone takes pity on him. Fuck that shit. Who wants a mercy fuck? Goddamn.

No, seriously. I am a relatively nice guy, but I just don't have the patience to wait it out. Why should I have to? Who dictates these rules? I walk my own path.

The fact of the matter is this: I balance the impeccably mature, sophisticated, dignified, tactful adult with the rampant, cold, savage and completely juvenile 'evil' side of me. I do it to keep sane and vent every once in a while.

I just asked which path to take, not for a lesson I learned a long, long time ago.
Patience is essential, I know this, but the truth is, I don't have any right now. Too many responsibilities... too many irons in the fire.
I could wait for her if I wanted. I actually think she's a great girl, or did yall miss that? As for using her to improve my life... that's no better than a drug addict who thinks he can't live without his fix.
I have my pride.

Never mind, forget I asked. I give moral lessons, I told to lighten up. You give moral lessons, and it's all gravy... lighten up, guys!

skanks · Post by **skanks** » Thu Sep 18, 2003 7:34 pm

Nestorath69 wrote:And, for the recod, I'm pretty sick of being the nice guy.

Shouldn't delude yourself about being a nice guy.

Nestorath69 wrote: The nice guy may finish last, but until then, he's a whiny bitch that never gets any girl he wants until someone takes pity on him. Fuck that shit. Who wants a mercy fuck? Goddamn.

And the nice guy doesn't always finish last. Whinner's finish last. Cowards who go on about how nice they moaning about the injustice of the world.

Nestorath69 wrote: No, seriously. I am a relatively nice guy, but I just don't have the patience to wait it out. Why should I have to? Who dictates these rules? I walk my own path.

Relatively nice guys don't walk their paths over the backs of others.

Nestorath69 wrote: I just asked which path to take, not for a lesson I learned a long, long time ago.
Patience is essential, I know this, but the truth is, I don't have any right now. Too many responsibilities... too many irons in the fire.
I could wait for her if I wanted. I actually think she's a great girl, or did yall miss that? As for using her to improve my life... that's no better than a drug addict who thinks he can't live without his fix.
I have my pride.

Everyone you meet effects you in some way. You let someone turn you bitter but are too concieted to let someone bring out the goodness in you. Pride is too closely related to being stubborn.

Nestorath69 wrote: Never mind, forget I asked. I give moral lessons, I told to lighten up. You give moral lessons, and it's all gravy... lighten up, guys!.

Okay, I love you anyway.

Lyrs · Post by **Lyrs** » Thu Sep 18, 2003 8:58 pm

Perfection = infatuation/crush

Determine further if it's truly what you "think" it is, or if it's a case of crush.

Nestorath69 · Post by **Nestorath69** » Fri Sep 19, 2003 6:23 pm

Perfection... Ah dunno wha' tha' is anymore... I gives up, yall. I need sleep. 'sides... I'm too busy ta deal wit' a relation ship right now. yallz crazy ta think Ah ain't a nice guy, but whatevers.

I 'uz a nice guy fer a while, 'till I unnerstood what nice guys are used for- best frien's. Check dis owwt, here's a scene from mah misspent youth, sadly replayed o'er an o'er again.

Nice Guy: So, urm, I really like you, and I think you're cool... lets go out and do something some time.
Girl: Are you talking like, a date, or something?
Nice Guy: Well, uhh (blush, shuffle feet) yeah, i guess.
Girl: Well, I can't date someone I don't know... That'd be too weird. Let's be friends for awhile, and let's see...

Insert montage of good, genuine friendship, mutual respect and communication.

Nice Guy: So, We've been friends for a while now, I was thinking maybe we could go out on a date or sumpthin'
Girl: I couldn't possibly date you! You're my friend! I wouldn't want to ruin our perfectly good friendship!

A few months later...

Girl: Oh, boo-hoo, my boyfriend is treating me like shit! Why couldn't I have met a nice guy like you??? (Insert big puppydog eyes)
Nice guy: (seething inside) I have no idea...

I didn't get attention, real respect, or even to first base 'till I started bein' an ass. That was fine fer a while, but even I am subject to the laws of the universe: Those who are fundamentally good must return to their good roots, regardless of the vicarious and twisted lifestyle they lead...

And at my age, everyone starts thinking commitment and family... So Ah am a good guy again, mos' times... but Ah still jump aroun' an' act all crazy-like. I'm still acomplete ass an' a total jerk sometimes... It may not be much, or have merit, but it substitutes pretty well for a spine sometimes, especially since I'm a mellow, get along guy who doan' really care which way the win' blows, jus' as long as I'm not too blasted when it picks up...

Again, I'm good at heart. take what you like from dis an' run widdit, if yall like. I doan care, I's goin' sleepy-bye for da firs' time in a long time.

KhayotiK · Post by **KhayotiK** » Sat Sep 20, 2003 3:09 am

I have no clue what the fuck you just said.

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