Downwithpants, despite my join date I do have another account with an older join date, which I know is against the rules. Whatever, it's never used anymore and I didn't know at the time. But I've been here long enough to know how shit works, I've been lurking on the forums since 02. It's not so much about the cliques being there, I know that's going to happen regardless, the problem is that it's out-casting new members and people are seeing the org as a community that doesn't give a shit about it's members. How often do you see most of these people actually attempting to help somebody new? Most of the time the regulars just shun them. I'm even somewhat guilty of this myself. Regardless it's sort of a non-issue here because that's not quite what this discussion is about. I just kind of branched off theredownwithpants wrote:i'll respond to this seriously because based on your joined date, i see you've only been here a few years. The org has moved leaps and bounds past where it was when we had the original off-topic section (up till 2003). one of the biggest problems with that community was the social exclusivity of the regular crowd. it spurred dick-waving flame wars. it was too difficult for the administration (of which i was not a part at that time) to control.Arashinome wrote:That's the problem with this whole fucking community in general, it's so cliquey that we can't even get new members to feel welcome here because the majority of us are all a bunch of elitest fucks who wouldn't take 2 seconds to help somebody learn.
realize that whenever you have a social grouping of more than two people, you will get cliques. it happens everywhere: forums, school, work, sports. we cannot stop cliques from forming, however we do not want the same problems we had with the original off-topic community. so instead we ask that community members behave politely and encourage helping new forum visitors. when i read newbie posts in general amv and site help, i'm glad to see that our many of our current community members handle these threads much better than what has been the case in the past.
