Arigatomina wrote: Otohiko wrote:
I eagerly await the day when this fabled "some girl" is going to appear
Until then, stop scaring me with it being "some guy" instead!
Sorry, I couldn't resist. ;p
In all seriousness, women rarely get a chance to introduce a man to sex (inoring the middle-aged cradlerobbers who snatch up jailbait highschool boys). If you're looking for a serious relationship, then having little experience could work in your favor. If you've held out that long then your life obviously does not revolve around your penis, you're not likely to cheat or to move on to the next girl as soon as you've gotten some. The older a girl gets, the more appealing a guy like that is. So as long as you're not hoping for a teenybopper fresh out of highschool to fall (and stay) in love with you, you should have no problem. Just look for someone your own age who will appreciate the fact that you're not a horndog looking for an easy lay.
Wow really? I always thought it was weird that I was a virgin until I was 21. My ex-girlfriend thought it was weird too.. It's not like I didn't want it to happen until then, it's just that until that point I had never really put myself out there. For the longest time I thought there was something wrong with me or the ladies thought I was ugly (even though I consider myself the average joe/white dude in terms of looks). I still think it's incredibly difficult to find someone that has similar interests, but one thing I know for sure is that NO woman is going to just come up to you and eventually ask YOU out. They should if they feel like it, but they don't.