3 Easy Steps to Getting Friend Zoned!

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Re: 3 Easy Steps to Getting Friend Zoned!

Postby Jadecavy » Tue Apr 26, 2011 4:51 pm

I'm actually content as friends, there are lots of people out there to rape...I mean... date. Plus when you're single...
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Re: 3 Easy Steps to Getting Friend Zoned!

Postby dj_ultima_the_great » Tue Apr 26, 2011 5:27 pm

Pinkie Pie wrote:Also, everyone should listen to this because it's hilarious.


It was funny until he said, "and if she's a fat girl, it's okay. Everybody's gotta start somewhere."

And people wonder why I have no self-confidence. When it seems like your physical appearance is at the butt of every joke about relationships, you kind of give up on having them. Furthermore, you get less and less motivated to bother changing the way you look because you've become jaded into thinking that personality doesn't count for anything anyway, and why would I want a relationship that's just based on something as fleeting as beauty?

Also, unrelated to this rant, Ileia makes a wonderful point. I have seen so many guys just give up on getting to know a girl because she wasn't sexually interested in him, as well as guys who have broken off all contact after a break up. Yeah, I've had guys that I've been attracted to, and for one reason or another (usually because he's taken), I know I can't have him, but if he was worth dating, then why wouldn't he be worth friendship?


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Re: 3 Easy Steps to Getting Friend Zoned!

Postby Jadecavy » Tue Apr 26, 2011 6:07 pm

I'm not sure about other guys, but I don't usually break off friendship with girls I was interested in. ._. If I can care about them enough to become interested, obviously they'd be excellent friends.
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Re: 3 Easy Steps to Getting Friend Zoned!

Postby guy07 » Fri Apr 29, 2011 1:43 am

Relationships are overrated. Now stop looking at porn and get back to work. :book:
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Re: 3 Easy Steps to Getting Friend Zoned!

Postby Kariudo » Fri Apr 29, 2011 2:35 am

guy07 wrote:Relationships are overrated.

says the ocean to the desert
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Re: 3 Easy Steps to Getting Friend Zoned!

Postby hasteroth » Fri Apr 29, 2011 12:45 pm

Kariudo wrote:
guy07 wrote:Relationships are overrated.

says the ocean to the desert

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Re: 3 Easy Steps to Getting Friend Zoned!

Postby ngsilver » Fri Apr 29, 2011 8:55 pm

Dude, the friend zone has benefits! Enjoy them!
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Re: 3 Easy Steps to Getting Friend Zoned!

Postby Jadecavy » Fri Apr 29, 2011 8:58 pm

Like friends with benefits?
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Re: 3 Easy Steps to Getting Friend Zoned!

Postby ngsilver » Fri Apr 29, 2011 8:59 pm

That purely depends on the friend :awesome:
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Re: 3 Easy Steps to Getting Friend Zoned!

Postby Jadecavy » Fri Apr 29, 2011 9:25 pm

:D
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Re: 3 Easy Steps to Getting Friend Zoned!

Postby Flint the Dwarf » Sat Apr 30, 2011 7:27 pm

People just seem perpetually confused and uncertain as to what they want from other people. For the sake of this conversation, "friend zone" appears to mean a sort of limbo, where a person is neither one place nor the other. For most guys, if you're attracted to a girl and there's little or no evidence of attraction reciprocated, the simplest path is one of separation. I've seen far too many friends pursue what they claimed to be friendship that ended up being a purgatorial stasis in which they ended up brooding and resenting the girl. I think a lot of people consider friendship as a stepping stone to something more, which only diminishes the value of friendship. Learn what you want, people. :up:
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Re: 3 Easy Steps to Getting Friend Zoned!

Postby Jadecavy » Sat Apr 30, 2011 7:31 pm

No, why would you abandon a girl just because she's not interested in you? If she's good enough to care for in that respect, is she not good enough to be your friend?
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Re: 3 Easy Steps to Getting Friend Zoned!

Postby Flint the Dwarf » Sat Apr 30, 2011 7:44 pm

Of course. But I was mostly referring to guys that can't seem to decide whether they want to really be friends or something more. Did you not read the rest of what I wrote? If you let that "friendship" linger and it doesn't go where you want it, then it stagnates and it's a shitty thing for both people.
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Re: 3 Easy Steps to Getting Friend Zoned!

Postby Shui » Sat Apr 30, 2011 7:58 pm

Friends are there for each others and treat one another nicely (usually). So where is the joke here ?
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Re: 3 Easy Steps to Getting Friend Zoned!

Postby Cyanna » Sat Apr 30, 2011 8:57 pm

I put Scintilla in the friend zone the first time he asked me out. If he stopped being my friend at that point we never would have gotten married.
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