dj_ultima_the_great wrote:PS: oh, and here's my rant for the day, and it's aimed at you men. You know, I'm totally cool with you ignoring the fact that I'm a girl and just treating me like another guy friend. We can game together, we can complain about women (hey, mud slings in both directions), and I can be your wing(wo)man and you don't even have to worry about me cockblocking you. But for fuck's sake, don't double standard me. Don't treat me like I'm a guy friend and then get weird when we actually hang out. Don't suddenly notice I'm a chick on days that I happen to dress cuter and push me away because you're paranoid I'm coming on to you. (So sorry that I was born female and I play up that asset - and anyway, you really have the self-conceit to think I'm doing it just for you?) Either way then, I lose, and that's not only unfair, but incredibly irritating as well. I typically get along better with guys than girls because of mutual interests, but I have very few guy friends because they all turn into morons the instant we get past a casual "hello." Moreover, isn't that kind of selfish? You automatically assume that because I want to be friends that it means I'm trying to get in your pants? Grow up, guys - and you know, I wish I could just blame it on you, but we would all get along a lot better if men AND women stopped playing stupid relationship games. This screws up potential friendships for the rest of us.
See, I have this same problem, just reversed. I have a lot of "gal pals" that completely seem to forget I'm a guy until I say something about the football score, and then they get all critical about it and start talkin gabout piggish men
Moreover, I'm just frustrated with my love life. Mostly because I don't seem to have one. My biggest problem is that I'm not in it for sex or some quick term relationship to get through the valentine season. I actually try to befriend and get to know somebody before I start dating them. Sadly enough, most women I seem to meet don't want long-term relationships. >_>' That, or the accounting department is just THAT slutty.











